So whatever you consider 'sex' to be is totally valid, but that’s why communication is so important. Basically, “there isn't one that is ‘better’ or a ‘more real’ type of sex than the other,' says psychotherapist Kristie Overstreet, PhD. So for one person, sex might be any type of sensual touch, while for another, it could mean any form of penetration. “It's not just about genitals and mouths.” “Sex is a mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional erotic connection shared between those involved,” explains sexologist Shamyra Howard, author of Use Your Mouth. First off, let me clarify that the definition of “sex” isn’t a one-size-fits-all kind of thing.
